How to Help Your Child Discover What They Truly Love
By Priyanka Tewari, Founder – Tiny Big Visions
“The earlier a child understands what lights them up, the brighter they grow.”
We’ve all asked it as parents:
“What’s my child’s ‘thing’? What truly excites them?”
“Are they more of a sports kid, a creative soul, a future scientist… or something we can’t yet imagine?”
As a mom of two very different kids, I’ve spent the last decade navigating the beautiful chaos of parenting.
Along the way, through countless parenting books, late-night forums, and deep conversations in parenting communities, I’ve discovered one truth that never fails:
Every child enters this world with their own spark; unique passions, talents, and curiosities waiting to unfold.
But that spark doesn’t always reveal itself loudly.
It needs the right environment and a gentle nudge….not pressure, not comparison but just enough guidance to help it grow into something extraordinary.
Why Passion Discovery Matters Early
When kids know what they love, everything shifts:
- They’re more engaged in school.
- They build healthier friendships.
- They set clearer goals.
- They feel more confident and connected to themselves.
But here’s the catch: children can’t always tell you what they love.
They may not have the vocabulary or self-awareness yet.
Instead, they show you — through curiosity, questions, repetition, joy.
And that’s where tools like the TinyBigVisions Journal come in.
The Power of the “Passion Pages”
In both age-group journals (7–11 and 12–16), we’ve created a special section dedicated to helping kids reflect on what truly brings them joy.
Through creative prompts like:
“What can you talk about for hours?”
“What would your dream weekend look like?”
“What career seems fun—even if it sounds a little crazy?”
These questions aren’t about finding a job title.
They’re about helping your child connect with their inner compass—what feels meaningful, energizing, and joyful for them.
The answers might surprise you.
One 12 year old child recently told us:
“I think I want to open a bakery for dogs. I love baking, and I love animals!”
That’s not just cute – it’s a spark of creativity, empathy, and purpose.
And when that spark is nurtured, it can lead to bigger dreams, more confidence, and even long-term clarity.
Want to Know What You Can Do as a Parent?
- Observe Without Pushing
Notice what lights them up when no one’s watching. Follow their energy, not just achievement. - Ask Thoughtful Questions
Try asking: “What did you enjoy most about today?” or “Is there something you wish you could learn more about?” - Create Space for Reflection
Kids need time to pause and connect inward – away from screens, noise, and pressure. A journal gives them that sacred space. - Celebrate Curiosity Over Outcomes
It’s okay if they love art this month and astronomy the next. They’re learning to listen to themselves – that’s the real win.
In a world full of expectations, comparison, and overwhelm…
Helping your child know what they love isn’t just a nice idea.
It’s one of the most empowering gifts you can offer them.
Because when they know what matters to them,
they begin to write their own story, rather than follow someone else’s.
Give them the tools to reflect, dream, and define their passions.
Explore the TinyBigVisions’ Journals today.
Because helping them know themselves is the greatest gift.
Available for ages 7–11 & 12–16 at tinybigvisions.com/products
